Sunday Thinking

"When we take the responsibility for cultivating our true self, we break the ties that bind us to the illusions of who and what we falsely think we are."

The weekly Sunday Thinking newsletter is quick-hit content that aims to provide a booster shot to your thought process as you end and start your week.

"Discomfort is what happens when we are on the precipice of change. Unfortunately, we often confuse it for unhappiness, and cope with the latter while running from the former. It usually takes a bit of discomfort to break through to a new understanding, to release a limiting belief, to motivate ourselves to create real change. Discomfort is a signal, one that is often very helpful."

― Brianna Wiest, The Pivot Year

I. Connect to Your Power

9 things that hold great power:

  1. Rest

  2. Kindness

  3. Meditation

  4. Vulnerability

  5. Healing yourself

  6. Being honest with others

  7. Embracing lifelong growth

  8. Fostering deep connections

  9. Giving without wanting in return

"If you embrace growth, remain humble, and are not afraid of stepping outside of your comfort zone, you can be sure that your best work and the best parts of your life have not happened yet."

Source: Yung Pueblo, Lighter

II. Control What You Can

Each day as leaders and positive difference makers, we have the responsibility to differentiate between what is in our control and what is out of our control.

In my control:

  • My habits

  • My attitude

  • My self-talk

  • My inner peace

  • My productivity

  • My relationships

Out of my control:

  • Adversity

  • The past

  • The future

  • What others say

  • Other people’s motives

  • What others think of me

“When you can’t control what’s happening to you, control how you respond to it. That’s where your power is.” ― Inky Johnson

III. Everyday Not Someday

Your actions and everyday habits provide evidence for who you are. It's in your power to create the identity you want.

Make Good Habits:

  • Obvious and Attractive

  • Easy and Satisfying

Make Bad Habits:

  • Invisible and Unattractive

  • Difficult and Unsatisfying

When determining the size or complexity of a new habit, ask yourself, "What can I stick to — even on my worst day?" Start there. Master the art of showing up. Then advance.

Source: James Clear, Atomic Habits

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V. Question

Can my current habits carry me to my desired future?

VI. This Week, I Will

  1. Be teachable.

  2. Slow down and breathe.

  3. Not engage in gossiping.

  4. Prioritize what truly matters.

  5. Release what I can’t control.

The Last Words…

"Now is the time to get serious about living your ideals. How long can you afford to put off who you really want to be? Your nobler self cannot wait any longer. Put your principles into practice – now. Stop the excuses and the procrastination. This is your life! You aren’t a child anymore. The sooner you set yourself to your spiritual program, the happier you will be. The longer you wait, the more you’ll be vulnerable to mediocrity and feel filled with shame and regret, because you know you are capable of better. From this instant on, vow to stop disappointing yourself. Separate yourself from the mob. Decide to be extraordinary and do what you need to do – now."

― Epictetus, The Art of Living

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